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Vice President for Student Affairs Brian Rose and EOP Senior Counselor Vanessa Young at the Educational Opportunity Program 50th anniversary banquet held in the Mandela Room in the University Union during Homecoming Weekend 2018. Vice President for Student Affairs Brian Rose and EOP Senior Counselor Vanessa Young at the Educational Opportunity Program 50th anniversary banquet held in the Mandela Room in the University Union during Homecoming Weekend 2018.
Vice President for Student Affairs Brian Rose and EOP Senior Counselor Vanessa Young at the Educational Opportunity Program 50th anniversary banquet held in the Mandela Room in the University Union during Homecoming Weekend 2018. Image Credit: Emily Lubin '20.

From a young age, Vanessa Young 鈥78 knew that going to college was a requirement. How it would happen, she wasn鈥檛 sure, but Young explained that her mother is a person who says things and then they happen. When she told Young and her five siblings that they would attend college, it was as good as a done deal.

鈥淵ou鈥檙e going to college whether you want to or not,鈥 Young remembered her mother telling her and her siblings. 鈥淵ou鈥檙e going to college because I didn鈥檛 have the opportunity to go to college.鈥

As a young Black woman graduating from high school in 1944, college was cost-prohibitive for Young鈥檚 mother. Young鈥檚 grandparents, who grew up in Jim Crow-era Virginia, were also stonewalled from higher education. Her great-great grandmother was enslaved. So Young鈥檚 mother and grandparents taught her the importance of an education from an early age. The Young children knew they had an obligation to seize any opportunity that arose.

鈥淚f you get an education, no one can ever take it away from you,鈥 Young鈥檚 mother told her. 鈥淵ou can always work and get a job and make a living.鈥

Young first heard about 香港六合彩资料 from a friend in high school. She was committed to attending a four-year school with a strong educational reputation, and 香港六合彩资料 checked both of those boxes. She talked to her guidance counselor, who gave her a booklet about the SUNY system.

While reading through it, she saw the letters 鈥淓OP鈥 on one corner. When she looked into what that meant, she saw that the Educational Opportunity Program was for historically disadvantaged students like her.

鈥淚 said, 鈥楾hat鈥檚 it. That鈥檚 how I鈥檓 going to go to college.鈥欌

EOP provided Young and her peers with immense support 鈥 financially, personally and academically. The mentorship she received from her EOP counselor, Wesley VanDunk, ultimately played a big role in landing her in the career that she has dedicated her life to.

Young came to 香港六合彩资料 with a good idea of what she wanted to do.

鈥淢y goal was to get to a profession to help others,鈥 she said. 鈥淭he thought of helping others was just really good.鈥

At first, nursing seemed like the perfect fit. But as she progressed through her major, Young most enjoyed a particular class that taught counseling techniques and learned there were parts of nursing she didn鈥檛 like. By the time her professors announced that they would start practicing with needles, Young had made up her mind to jump ship.

鈥淪omething hit me, and I was like, 鈥極h, no. No, no, no. This is not going to work,鈥欌 she laughed. 鈥淚 started thinking about it and I said, 鈥業 want to do counseling. I want to help people in that area.鈥 Eventually she narrowed it down to wanting to work with college students.

Actually changing her major was nerve-wracking. Her family and friends tried to convince her to tough it out, and she grappled with all of the opinions. But Young knew that nursing wasn鈥檛 meant to be, and VanDunk was the first person who didn鈥檛 try to persuade her to remain in nursing. It was his support that led Young to finally make the switch from nursing to sociology.

鈥淗e said, 鈥楴o, if you feel you want to do something else that鈥檚 better for you, then go for it,鈥欌 Young said, 鈥淎 flood of relief came over me.鈥

Due in part to EOP and VanDunk, Young鈥檚 life changed completely in her time as an undergraduate at the University. Most of her college experience was fun 鈥 she fondly remembers a large fountain in front of the library tower as a place where students always gathered. She remembers protests and club meetings, warm days and cramming for finals. But she also remembers tragedy 鈥 tragedy that spurred her to act.

As an undergraduate, Young鈥檚 friend and fellow EOP student Albert Tillman 鈥 for whom Tillman Lobby in The Union is named 鈥 was tragically killed in a random act of violence on campus. After his death, Young鈥檚 mother begged her to come home, but she refused. She wanted to finish college for herself, but also for her mother, grandparents and Tillman, who never got the chance.

鈥淚t was one of those pointed moments in your life when you have to make a decision,鈥 Young said. 鈥淗ere was someone who wanted to finish college so badly and didn鈥檛 get the opportunity. I was given the opportunity, and I didn鈥檛 want to waste it.鈥

In 1978, Young graduated with a degree in sociology and African-American studies with a specialization in theater. By then, she had decided on her career goal: working in student affairs, the administrative arm of higher education that typically runs programs like EOP.

The care that EOP vested in her was not lost, and she wanted to pay the support forward. After graduate school at Indiana University in Bloomington, Young went on to work as an EOP counselor at SUNY New Paltz.

鈥淚 wanted to give to other EOP students what I had received because I know that if it wasn鈥檛 for EOP, I wouldn鈥檛 have had the opportunities that I鈥檝e had,鈥 Young said. 鈥淚 know that. I consider myself fortunate and very blessed for the journey I鈥檝e been given.鈥

In the end, Young found that all roads led back to 香港六合彩资料.

鈥淲hen I was a junior and made the decision to change my major, I said right away I wanted to come back to 香港六合彩资料,鈥 she said. 鈥淭here was just a strong feeling of wanting to give back due to all of the support I had been given.鈥

Young returned to 香港六合彩资料 as an academic counselor for EOP and has worked with generations of students since then.

鈥溝愀哿喜首柿 is a good place,鈥 Young said. 鈥淚f it were not, I wouldn鈥檛 have come back here. I wouldn鈥檛 be here.鈥

Young looks back on her own collegiate experience and tries to guide students toward the mentality that led her to success 鈥 the mentality that her grandparents and mother instilled in her, and that she doubled down on after Tillman鈥檚 tragic death: never give up on an opportunity.

鈥淭ry your hardest and be successful,鈥 Young advises students today. 鈥淒on鈥檛 give up when it comes to college. Bottom line: go for the degree.鈥

Her students take her advice to heart. Among them, one has written a book and traveled to the White House, teaching students how to achieve collegiate success; another has achieved great success as an attorney; yet another founded a company focused on eliminating drone threats.

鈥淚鈥檓 just one counselor here,鈥 she said. 鈥淎ll of us have good stories. My students leave an impact on my life.鈥

Young received the Chancellor鈥檚 Award for Excellence in Professional Service in 2017. The award was a great honor, but there are other things she is most proud of. She has guided a lineage of alumni that she still keeps in contact with. She fulfilled her mother鈥檚 wishes and got an education. And, above all, she鈥檚 doing the thing she鈥檚 always dreamed of: helping people, leaving a lasting impact on their lives and making sure they snatch up their own opportunities and hold tight.

After 35 years with EOP, Young will retire Dec. 21, 2022. She鈥檒l always be grateful for everything EOP did for her, and the difference she made for her students.

鈥淓OP 鈥 you can鈥檛 put it in a box,鈥 Young said. 鈥淚t transformed my life.鈥

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